A brief commentary on the recent high profile sex scandals in Hollywood and Washington D.C. This book deals with highly sensitive subject matter. It is not an attempt to make excuses for sexual predators. It is an attempt to prevent sexual misconduct in the future, by examining the chain of events, and misunderstandings along the way, that lead to sexual misconduct. We can't fix a problem if we don't understand the problem or don't even know why there is a problem in the first place. In my previous book, Why Men And Women Can't Be Friends, I talked about how men and women often fundamentally misunderstand each other without even realizing it. Sometimes both sides completely misread the other person's social cues. Men and women often perceive the same situation very differently. For example, studies have shown that women tend to misinterpret a man's sexual interest in her as “just being friendly” and men tend to misinterpret a woman's friendliness as sexual interest in him.