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What you are about to read is a compilation of 10 articles dealing with a variety of relationship issues. Some are addressed to guys, some are addressed to gals, and some to both.
Since the book deals with relationship issues, some points might seem to sound repetitive. But in effect, the author has attacked the same issues from different angles, and the repetition can be regarded as reiteration, reemphasis and reinforcement of the same ideas from different perspectives.
All the topics in this book relate to heterosexual couples only. This book is not meant for homosexual couples.
Table of Contents
Quickest Ways To Get Your Ex Back
How Do You Get a Girl Back? 3 Amazing Strategies to Win Back Her Love
How do you get a girl back when she has walked away from the relationship? This is a question that many men grapple with when they find themselves suddenly single all over again. When she no longer shows an interest in the relationship, you need to take it seriously. You might lose her forever if you don’t act fast. You need to know what to do and how to do it.
Here are 3 Strategies to win back her love:
1. The first and foremost step to winning her back is to ignore her completely. It might sound crazy, but this strategy has worked wonders for scores of people. Your girlfriend will not take you seriously as long as you keep running behind her. But the moment you stop showing interest in her, you will begin to notice a change in her behavior towards you. Just quietly vanish from the scene for two or three weeks. Don’t call her or tell her where you are going. Just be absent. That will make her wonder about you more than ever before.
2. When you are away, go out and have some clean fun. Meet with the boys and go camping. Catch up with some reading or go watch a movie. Do anything that will take your mind off of the break up. Just ensure that it is clean fun. Don’t end up drinking and lying on the floor. You will get depressed all over again. Do anything that will keep your mind active and occupied. When you are happy, you will feel great and confident. Moreover, when your girlfriend hears that you are having a great time, she will be quite perplexed about your cheerful attitude. Most girls expect their boyfriends to totally break down after a split up. But when you go out and have the time of your life, she will be pleasantly surprised at your positive attitude. She will be attracted to your maturity and your positive outlook in life.
3. If there is anything in you that contributed towards the break up, use this time to fix that flaw in your character. If the break up can make you a better person, then you should take full advantage of the situation. Work on yourself and correct any flaws that you find in your character. This will again make you a more attractive person.
You can use these 3 simple strategies to get your girl and win back her love.
Instant Strategies to Get Your Man Back – 3 Miracle Steps
If you are determined to get your man back, there is nothing in the world that can stand in your way. We sometimes are the biggest stumbling blocks in our own lives. Our negative thoughts and our defeatist attitudes are the ones that keep us from getting the things that we desire the most in our lives. So just remember that you can have whatever you desire as long as you don’t become the hindrance to achieving your goal.
Here are 3 effective steps that you can use to get your man back
1. Understand that men usually don’t have a clue as to how you feel when they dump you. He probably wouldn’t have dumped you if he really could feel the agony you are going through right now. And most men would not be able to handle that kind of rejection themselves. Most of them would be totally devastated by a rejection. So what you need to do now is rock his boat a little to capture his attention. You need to send him a short handwritten note saying that you agree to the breakup. Tell him that you thought about it for a long time and you feel that a breakup is the best thing for both of you. Now this is a very subtle way of giving him a taste of his own medicine. Without saying it in words, you are in a sense turning around and dumping him. This is when his attitude towards the whole breakup episode will begin to change.
2. Nobody likes to be around a person who is mourning. It will drain them emotionally. If you want your man to find you attractive, you need to become a cheerful person. So after you have written that note and sent it to him, forget about the breakup and look forward to the reunion. Change your entire outlook and become a positive person. Go out with your other friends and have a good time. Hang around with cheerful people and freshen up your mind. Get rid of all the negativity and flush out all the gloom and unhappiness. Once your inner self becomes beautiful, that beauty will start radiating on the outside. Without your own knowledge, you will become more attractive in more ways than one. People will start liking your company.
3. After sending the note to him, silently vanish from the scene. He will want to contact you regarding the note, but go into hiding for about two or three weeks. Don’t call, message or email him during this period. Let your absence make him think about you all the time. By the end of these three weeks, we will be dying to meet you. This is when you need to plan on meeting him.
Ignore Your Girlfriend and Get Her Back – Why it Always Works
Men who have used this technique are amazed at how well it works. If you do it right, it will work for you too. Yes, just ignore your girlfriend and get her back. Of course, there is a right and a wrong way to do it. So be sure that you learn to do it the right way if you plan to follow this technique to get your girlfriend back.
The first step in the process as soon as she says that she wants to breakup, is to write her a hand-written note. It need not be very elaborate, but it needs to be handwritten. Just write saying that you agree to the breakup and you too think that a breakup is okay with you. You need to sound calm and collected in your words and not antagonistic or remorseful in any way. This first step alone is enough to throw your girlfriend off balance because this is not what she would have expected. Girls normally expect guys to beg and plead and come after them. The least they expect is the guy calmly agreeing for the breakup.
Once you post the letter, vanish from her life for about 2 to 3 weeks. Literally disappear from her life. She should not be able to see you, talk to you or even mail you. You simply don’t exist anymore. Now this could be too much for a girl to bear. This is again something that they are not used to. Guys usually take every opportunity to ‘accidentally’ bump into them. But here you are, totally absent from the scene. This would keep them thinking about you all day long and inquiring your friends about you.
In the meantime, work on yourself. Take time off to freshen up your mind, cultivate a positive attitude, and correct any flaws that you notice in your character. No matter how good a guy you are, there might still be a few things that might have contributed towards the breakup. Identify and rectify these mistakes in yourself.
Once you do these things over a period of three weeks, you will be a transformed person. The void that you had created in your girlfriend would have also changed her for the better. Now when you finally meet her for the first time after the breakup, things will be totally new and you will be on to a fresh start.
Magic Formula to Get Your Ex Back
Would you like to have the magic formula to get your ex back? This technique is very powerful because it takes advantage of one of the fundamental traits of human nature. Once you understand this quirk in human behavior, you will be able to use it powerfully to get your ex back.
You need to know that from the dawn of time, humans have been fascinated by the “forbidden fruit”. The forbidden fruit is anything that is enticing but is out of reach. The harder it is to get, the more the desire to possess it. This is something that all of us have experienced at one time or another in our own life. When we are attracted to something and then realize that it is not within our reach, we begin to want it even more desperately. This is a behavioral pattern that can be seen in all humans regardless of culture, status, sex or educational background.
Now what has this got to do with getting your ex back? You need to understand that as long as you are “available” to your ex, they will not bother about you much. But if you become the “forbidden fruit”, they will all of a sudden begin to want you desperately.
If you have been calling, pleading or begging your ex to come back or to accept you, you need to stop that right now. You are not being the forbidden fruit. You are the “available fruit” that is always taken for granted. They know that you are always there for them. But when you suddenly become “unavailable”, that is when their attitude towards you will start changing for the better.
They will suddenly start to realize that you might be slipping away through their fingers. For the first time, it would occur to them what life would be like without you. As long as you keep running behind them, you will never give them an opportunity to think about losing you. But when you withdraw yourself from them, you will give them a taste of what life is, without you.
You will then become the forbidden fruit to them. Since you are now out of reach, they will begin to desire you. They will see you in a new light. They will want you desperately. But the power to make this happen is in your hands. You need to use it wisely to your advantage.
You Can Make Him Beg You to Take Him Back – Here’s How You Do It
You still are madly in love with your boyfriend and desperately hope to patch up with him. But you don’t have to stop with just hoping. You can turn the tables around and make him beg you to take him back instead. If the thought makes you feel wonderful, imagine how you would feel when it really happens. Learn how you can make your dream come true.
First of all, be mature enough to admit your faults. Write a small note saying that you are sorry for doing whatever you had done that contributed towards the breakup. However small it might have been, express your regret for doing it and put it in writing. This would be your opening move. Confession is a powerful act that takes away animosity between two people and helps them see eye to eye. Once you do this, it will grab his attention and he will be in a frame of mind to listen to you. Now the stage is all set for your reunion. A new phase in your relationship can begin.
While ending the note, just write that you agree with the breakup and that you understand his point of view. Tell him that you think it is the best option for both of you. He will immediately have mixed feelings about this. He will be happy to hear that you respect his sentiments and honor his decision. But he will also be perplexed about the fact that you are now dumping him. Guys hardly realize how bad you feel when they dump you. When you turn around and dump them instead, immediately they will wake up. That is precisely what your note will make him do.
Once you have written your short note and sent it, avoid all forms of contact with him for a few weeks. Do not call, text message or email him for 2 or 3 weeks. He will want to talk to you at least out of curiosity once he gets your note, but don’t give him that opportunity. Your virtual absence will make him keep wondering about you from morning till night. This will also give him an opportunity to taste life without you. On top of that, he might have to deal with the emotion of losing you to another guy. Most often this is all it takes to have him knocking at your door, begging you to take him back!
Stunning Techniques to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back – Breakthrough Methods That Work Wonders
Are you looking for stunning techniques to get you ex boyfriend back? When your boyfriend has broken up with you, you really want to somehow have him back, don’t you. You just wish you knew what to do to make him love you once again. You don’t have to grope in the dark anymore.
Here are 3 surefire strategies to make him love you again.
1. First of all, give him the impression that you agree with the breakup and that you are totally at peace with the idea. It might sound ridiculous and totally counter-intuitive at first, but you have to do it because it works so powerfully. This technique is powerful because this is not something that your boyfriend would have expected from you. Girls just don’t act this way after a break up. But since your response is different, it will make him sit up and take notice. The key to making this work is to write him a short handwritten note saying that you totally agree with the breakup and that you feel it is the best option for both of you. You need to make the letter sound friendly and not bitter in any way. You also should stop calling him or mailing him after you send him the note or else the strategy won’t work powerfully for you.
2. The next unconventional thing you need to do is stop crying and start enjoying life. Make a conscious effort to get out and have some fun. Choose those friends that are the most fun to be around with, and spend a lot of time with them. This will help you get out of a negative frame of mind and think more objectively in order to take the right decisions. Moreover, when your boyfriend hears that you are out, having a nice time with your friends, that will again intrigue him no end. He would expect you to be sobbing your heart out after writing that note to him. Instead, here you are having a jolly good time with your friends without any problem whatsoever.
3. After a few weeks pass by, hang around with mutual friends where you would have a chance to bump into him ‘accidentally’. When you meet him eventually, be kind and friendly but totally avoid the romantic angle. Act like he is your buddy when you are in a group as well as when you are alone with him. Focus your attention on building a close, platonic friendship with him. This will eventually act as a strong base on which your romance will be built in the future.
How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Today – 3 Steps to Implement Right Away
You will need proven advice to help you successfully repair your relationship with your ex boyfriend. You should first of all avoid begging or pleading with your boyfriend to come back. This is a mistake that most women make, but you should avoid this at all cost. This behavior is quite understandable because you are emotionally upset and you desperately want your man to come back, and this is the only way you know to get him back. But if you really want to be successful in getting him back, you need to add a lot more planning and strategy into your efforts than blindly making an emotional attempt at persuading him to come back.
3 Steps to make your ex boyfriend come back to you:
Keep in touch with his friends. Although it might seem a little sneaky, it will do your relationship with him a lot of good for two reasons. First and foremost, the relationship that you develop with people whom he is close with will have a therapeutic effect on you. Even though your relationship with him is going through a rough patch, you can find peace and solace in the fact that those around him are still close to you. Secondly, your close association with them will keep you active in his thoughts. Your name is bound to come up in the conversation they have with him. Even though you may not directly meet him, he will still know what is happening with you through his friends that you are close with.
Go on a vacation for a couple of weeks. The change of scenery will do you a lot of good. Most women assume that they need to stay put and keep pleading with him until he relents. The idea of leaving the place for a while hardly ever crops up in their mind. But you can safely go somewhere for a few weeks to clear your mind and your emotions. Being away for a little while will do you and your relationship a lot of good. He will also have time to think things through instead of anticipating your next call and thinking about what excuse he needs to give you now.
When it comes to mending your relationship, don’t start where you left off. Start your relationship afresh. Think of it as a new relationship that you are starting with your boyfriend. Let nothing from the past dictate how this relationship should go. Develop a brand new friendship with him. At first keep it just that – a friendship. Do not initiate anything romantic. Become a good buddy and see what you can do to make his life better and constructive. Help him to see you as a close friend that he cannot do without. Once the relationship becomes strong, he will automatically initiate the romance on his own. Wait patiently until that point.
Sex Before Marriage – Statistics That Will Stun You
This is a hot and controversial topic with a lot of statistics to prove how vital it is for us to understand it properly. Most people are under the impression that it is the religious and orthodox groups that oppose sex before marriage, while everyone else endorses it. But you will be surprised to know that the highest office of the United States government in fact encourages abstinence from sex before marriage. There is a US government initiative called PEPFAR. All the statistics mentioned here have been directly sourced from this program’s .
The United States government encourages unmarried individuals to abstain from sexual activity as it is the best and the only certain way to protect themselves from exposure to HIV and other sexually transmitted infections. Just think about this for a moment. This is not a religious organization or an orthodox group asking you to abstain from sex before marriage citing religious beliefs. This is the United States government coming to this conclusion after spending billions of dollars in research and having all the relevant statistics at hand. Even if people might ignore advice from faith-based organizations, they sure would not want to ignore the recommendations of a scientific study.
Now what did this scientific study find out? It found that an alarming 50% of all new infections occur in young people between the ages of 15 and 24 years. If you think about it, that is exactly the age group that is involved in sex before marriage. Almost half of those young people end up getting infected with AIDS or other sexually transmitted diseases. Now this is hardly the age to be dealing with such complications in life. Just imagine how a person in that age group can effectively deal with having AIDS or a sexually transmitted disease. They will not be physically, mentally, emotionally or financially prepared to handle the situation. When they need to be focusing their attention on their studies or enhancing their careers, they would instead have to be in and out of hospitals, fighting for their lives against a deadly disease. So the government advices that "delaying the first sexual encounter can have a significant impact on the health and well-being of adolescents". This is not your dad, mom, teacher or pastor talking; this is the finding of a scientific study carried out by the United States Government.
The study also found that abstinence from sexual activity is the best and the only certain way to protect oneself from exposure to HIV and other sexually transmitted infections. There is an extremely dangerous idea called “safe sex” that is prevalent among sexually active individuals. But in reality, there is no such thing as “safe sex”. Transmission of diseases has happened several times even when condoms were used. The pill and the diaphragm have also failed to stop many pregnancies. As the study has found out, the only absolute way of avoiding pregnancies or protecting oneself from HIV and other deadly diseases contracted through sexual activity is completely avoiding sex before marriage. You can verify these facts at The United States President’s Emergency Plan for AIDS Relief .
Save Your Failing Marriage – Divorce is Not a Good Option
Once you feel that your relationship with your spouse is going downhill, you need to act fast to straighten the situation. Couples who are going through relationship conflicts are desperately searching for ways to save their failing marriage. There are a few things that you can do right away. First of all, determine in your heart that you will not give up no matter how hard the struggle gets. With a firm resolve to save your marriage, you can indeed turn the situation around and rebuild your relationship.
Most relationships suffer from a lack of proper communication. There are a number of things vying for your time every single day. Couples hardly get any time to spend alone with each other. Work, kids, house chores, TV and a whole lot of other things rob couples of the intimate moments that they need to spend with each other to make their relationship thrive. Many couples assume that sitting ‘together’ in front of the TV for two or three hours every evening is spending quality time. But unless there is open heart-to-heart talk between husband and wife, it really cannot be called effective communication.
You and your spouse should have your relationship as top priority in your lives. Although you need to also care about your children, your careers and so many other commitments, you should always value your relationship above all your other commitments in life. Only that kind of dedication towards nurturing your relationship will ensure that you have a good and stable marriage. So if you have been neglecting your time together, make it a priority to allocate at least a small portion of your time to sit down with your spouse every single day and talk.
Sometimes, when couples start talking they can get into arguments and end up fighting. To avoid this from happening, make a rule that whenever you are sorting out a disagreement, each person will have an opportunity to fully explain their viewpoint without the other interrupting in between. The ‘no interruption’ rule will help you calmly share your point of view without getting into an argument.
Use these sessions to ask your spouse what you can do to make them happier. Focus on their needs more than on yourself. After all they are your life partner. You do not lose by making them happy. In fact by keeping them happy, you are doing yourself a huge favor. So focus on their needs and find out what they expect from you. Once you are committed to making your spouse happy, you will be amazed to find out how little effort you need to put in, in order to accomplish your goal.
Even if your spouse does not reciprocate your gesture initially, do not give up. You make up your mind to make them happy. It will not be long before they start reciprocating your love. Your efforts will pay huge dividends shortly and you can have a great marriage.
Once you learn the principle of putting your spouse first and making them happy, you will be well on your way to saving your marriage. You will then have a wonderful and fulfilling marriage relationship with your life partner.
Does Your Boyfriend Want to Have Sex? – 3 Reasons Why You Should Say No
If you want to build a lasting relationship with your boyfriend, you should never have sex with him. Even if your boyfriend wants to have sex, you should avoid it at all cost. If you have sex with him, you will eventually lose him. Time and again, girls have lost their boyfriends by having sex with them too early on in their relationship. If your boyfriend threatens that he will leave you if you don’t have sex with him, don’t succumb to his pressure. The probability of his leaving you is more when you have sex with him than if you refuse. So refusing to have sex is any day the wiser option.
3 reasons why you should always say “No” when your boyfriend forces you to have sex:
1. A guy who is always after sex before making any kind of commitment is not really the right guy to live your life with. If he cannot wait to have sex until he has made a commitment to never leave you, then he will almost always leave after you give him what he wants. He is just after you so that he can take you to bed. Once he gets what he wants, you will hardly ever see him again.
2. The most perplexing question that most girls face is, what if the guy leaves them if they refuse sex. Now just think about this. A guy can have sex with you and then dump you. Or, a guy can leave you without having sex with you. A guy who is only after sex will leave you anyway. Why? Because sex is available everywhere in plenty. You are not the only woman on planet earth. There are about 3 billion women on this planet that he can choose to have sex with. But out of that 3 billion women, you are the only one in the planet that he can have a unique relationship with. You are an irreplaceable person. There is simply no other woman in the world exactly like you. If your boyfriend recognizes that fact and that is what he is after and not your body, then he will always stay with you. But if he is just after sex, he will not stay with you for long.
3. Sex should never be entertained in a relationship where there is no commitment. Only when a guy makes a commitment, you should agree to share your body with him. That commitment is called marriage. A guy who cannot wait for sex until he has made that kind of commitment is not the right guy for you. Let him go. You will be happy you did.
You now have 3 good reasons to say ‘no’ to sex before marriage. Be wise. Wait for the right time and for the right person. You have a whole lifetime of happiness ahead of you. Don’t kill it with a few moments of transitory pleasure.
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About the Author
Jessica Matheson is a freelance writer, author and Net entrepreneur. She has a passion for writing on a variety of topics in different genres. She writes for ezines and creates content for websites. She also has a passion for drawing and painting, both traditional and digital.
Jessica is not a psychologist or relationship guru, and does not claim to be either. In fact, these professionals would wonder if her techniques would really work. But they do work, and scores of people have been helped in their relationships through the techniques outlined in this book.
Are you going through a difficult time in your relationship? Have you gone through a breakup recently? Are you trying hard to get your ex back? This book will help you get your partner interested in you once again as quickly as possible. You can put your relationship back on track and take it to new heights. No matter how bad things are right now, there is hope. First of all, stop mourning. Make an emotional U-turn and start thinking positively. You are going to get your ex back, so start thinking positively. You are in control of your relationship and you are going to turn it around the way you want it to be. Losers lose. Winners win. So put on the attitude of a winner. From this moment onward, it is a matter of time before you get back your ex. You can use the magic formulas outlined in this book to turn your relationship around and make it stronger than ever before. You can literally make your partner fall in love with you all over again. This time, it would be for good. All you need to do is go through the steps carefully and follow the suggestions laid out in the book. Soon, you will see changes begin to happen in your partner's attitude towards you. They will want to pursue the relationship at all costs. What you have been waiting for will happen like magic right before your eyes. This book is a compilation of 10 articles dealing with a variety of relationship issues. Some are addressed to guys, some are addressed to gals, and some to both.