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Motivating Children by Story

Author and Illustrator:

Setiawan G Sasongko

 

A writer, cartoonist, and illustrator. He make many themes of book: children stories, adventure stories, detective stories for children, teenage story, novels, short stories, mysterious stories, biography, etc. You can order him a story which your son/daughter become the main character. To know more about him, please click: setiawan-sasongko.blogspot.co.id

 

Table of Content

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p<{color:#000;}. Motivating Children is Very Important

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p<{color:#000;}. How Motivating Your Children by Story?

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p<{color:#000;}. Little Spider

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p<{color:#000;}. Failed Guerrillas

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p<{color:#000;}. Lindung Be Ridiculed

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p<{color:#000;}. A Lesson for Iko

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p<{color:#000;}. Harmony Is The Best

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p<{color:#000;}. Ant Warrior Stick

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p<{color:#000;}. A Mother and Death Angel

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p<{color:#000;}. Egg Seller

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p<{color:#000;}. New Commander

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p<{color:#000;}. Old Is Not Mean Useless

 

 

 

Motivating Children Is Very Important

 

Educating and caring for children requires special skills. It can not be done by trial and error technique. If you do by trial and error technique, you will get a big loss. Then, what parents must do? Psychologist said that children motivating is very important. What is the meaning of motivating? It is the urge to do something. Motivating can arise from within or outside of one’s.

To motivate your children can be adjusted with the goal to be achieved. For example, the motivating of religious life, to have a achievement in school, disciplined, etc. The motivating must be adapted to each character of your children, because each child has a different character. Children’s motivation to learn, for example, is unstable. It can change any time, sometimes too vibrant, casual, or listless. Motivation is also a capital for the child to face the future challenges. By the motivation then children will always be enthusiastic and not forced to do an activity.

 

Many items that must be considered by parents to support their child development. Especially for you who have pre-school children, kindergarten, or elementary school. To get maximum outcome, it is better if motivating is done by parents and teachers. However, the children educating will be more successful if there is synergy between parents and teachers.

It is fine to give a gift when you motivate your children to be a champion. With a lure, “Mother will give you a gift if you reach the first rank in your class.” Indeed, a gifts is one way to motivate your children. But it is become bad when your children only hunts the gift and ignore what is the main purpose of the gift. “I just want the gift, not the the other.” Maybe your children become diligent to learn, but they do it only to get the gift, not more. And it will be worse if the gift promising make him just anxious. “Whether I will get the gift?”

By have the motivating skil, we can upgrade our children to a better direction. We can motivate them to be more disciplined, value their time, love reading books, love to learning, and so on. If you motivate them with the words, maybe your children will say that you are the fussy parent.

Today, the challenge of our children is more severe if compared to the situation of ten years ago. Indeed, our children are fortunate to use technology, especially in this internet era. But there are too serious challenges which arise from the technology. Not only the high targets to be achieved in the education, but also the other challenges such as the consumerist attitude which is very high, television or internet which ignores morality, etc. Now, to be “successful and safe” is a very heavy burden. Of course, parents and teachers get the impact. You can also buy the biographies of the successful people, such as a biography of the inventor so your children will be motivated to succeed like the figure. At least, your children can learn from the perseverance and the hard work to get something.

 

Tips to motivate your children:

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p<>{color:#000;}. To be diligent. Children will be motivated to positive direction when he realized that the diligent figure in the story become lucky and have a good life.

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p<>{color:#000;}. Although your children is look lazy but it is not forever. Your children will change their habits if you give them an understanding of benefit when they have positive habits.

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p<>{color:#000;}. Do not give a bad predicate to your children. Bad predicate would lower your children motivation.

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p<>{color:#000;}. Please, appreciate the uniqueness of your child! For example, maybe your children is not good at math but good at drawing. You must appreciate their unique abilities and simultaneously you encourage them to learn math.

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p<>{color:#000;}. Permitted to give a target, but do not to burden your children.

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p<>{color:#000;}. Give encouragement, especially for your children who 3 – 5 years old. This age is the optimal period of growth. Do not break their curiosity.

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p<>{color:#000;}. Give a praise. Look at what they have done and give them a compliment.

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p<>{color:#000;}. Give a gift. A gift become an effective motivation when given at the right time. Sometimes a gift promise make your child be anxious and stress because they afraid not get the gift.

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p<>{color:#000;}. Sometimes, punishment is also an motivation. For example, your children always plays a knife or matches, of course it is very dangerous. You can punish them by not buy candies when invite them to a shop.

 

 

 

 

How Motivating Your Children by Story?

 

It is not enough to motivate your children by give encouragement and heritage advice of your ancestor. Occasionally it is fine, but if you often do it your children will feel bored. Your ancestor’s advice, maybe, was not able to apply in the present day. It is good to motivate your children and there are many way to do that. One of the way is by give them a motivating story because the enlightening stories give spirit to your children.

You can find story books with education theme, so your children love to reading books. You can say, “Let’s read the book because book is the windows of science”. You can give them a story book as a birthday gift, as an appreciation of their achievment, etc. The inspiring story can motivate your children without feel pressured. While there is a familly library in your house, you must add it with the motivating books for children. But you must know that not all children books are the motivating book, not all of children books suitable for them, you must select it.

You also can create the motivating story by yourself. It is not a difficult activity because there are many guidebooks to make stories. You can use the guidebook to increase your ability to make the motivating story. What must first be considered when make a motivating story? First, you determine the goals. I will explain to you about the motivating story in this book. You also can look for a figure who represent your children character, but it is not a necessity. Maybe, when your children know that the figure is the represent of them, they become angry and protest. “Mother made a story of me!” They will hate the story because feel to be teased. Although the story was intended to motivate your children, but do not too vulgar to convey it. Patronizing but not feel patronizing, then you children think that it is a fun story.

The story of “The Failed Guerrillas” motivate children to be a brave one, not dare to fight, but brave to face the immunization injection. In fact, it is not hurt when injected. Children always frightened when pierced by needle injection. But, basically, the real fear arise from their own feeling, not by the needle.

The idea of story “A Lesson for Iko” came when my niece was sad. Her parents told me that she became sad because she had fail in exam. “How to be success if she never studied hard,” whispered her father to me. Then I created a story which tell about a boy who always cheat on his exam. His name is Iko. He disappointed when he did not selected to represent his school for a quiz contest. In his grief, he took a walk and met peoples who gave him a valuable lesson about honesty and hard work. Compare: Iko was a village boy, but my niece live in the capital city. So, it is not directly tell my niece. Iko like to cheat in his exam but my niece do not. But the purpose of the story is to motivate my niece (and other children) to be enthusiastic and diligent with the right path. How? Iko meet a sugarcane collector and a charcoal maker.

The story “Lindung be Ridiculed”. Lindung grumbled when his grandmother told him to bring water for his grandfather who worked in paddy field. Oddly, along the way, everyone compliment him as a good boy, a diligent child. These compliment, though sincere, but it was painful for him. Finally, the compliments make Lindung to realize his mistake.

Our children, actually, always fight for a trivial matter. It is so tired to advise because there is always many reasons for them to make a fuss. Therefore, I make a story about a chicken which broods two kind of eggs. The eggs was hatching as a chicken and a duck. They always fight everyday until their mother left them. But, when they faced any difficulties, they know that they need cooperation and friendship. Please, see “Team Up is Comfortable”.

The story about “Egg Seller” motivate children to always enthusiastic although it was difficult. Ninin is a little poor girl. She help her mother by sell eggs. Unless motivate children to help their parents, it is also motivate them to be cautious. Show romanizationHow about the story The Little Spider”, is this story also to motivate children? It is right! I want that our children do not imitate the little spider which greedy and stupid. The little spider become greedy and not get anything, except the difficulties. By his stupidity the little spider can deceived by a dragonfly.

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Motivating Children by Story

The inspiring story can motivate your children without feel pressured. You can create the motivating story by yourself. You can use the guidebook to increase your ability to make the motivating story. What must first be considered when make a motivating story? First, you determine the goals. I will explain to you about the motivating story in this ebook. Although the story was intended to motivate your children, but do not too vulgar to convey it. Patronizing but not feel patronizing, then you children think that it is a fun story. In this ebook you also get 10 chidren’s stories with attractive illustration.

  • ISBN: 9781311797407
  • Author: Setiawan G Sasongko
  • Published: 2016-01-08 02:20:06
  • Words: 8460
Motivating Children by Story Motivating Children by Story