FetLife is the world's most popular online social network for kinky people. Whatever your kink may be, there are other people there who share it. Connecting with those people can be hard, though. The site is overwhelming, predators and scammers abound, users are widely spread out across the globe. How do you find the people who are right for you, and how do you get their attention once you do? This guide will walk you through a proven strategy for leveraging FetLife's strengths, dealing with it's challenges, and creating an abundance of kink in your life.