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cope up Kip Up KEEP IT UP : The S Word

 

 

 

 

 

 

THE S WORD

 

 

The S Word

by P M Asloob Sabir & Nurah LaRae Hanson

Copyright 2016 Cope Up Kip Up Keep It Up

Shakespir Edition

Introduction

 

This is a small chapter from our book ‘cope up Kip Up KEEP IT UP’ that might benefit people who are going through tough times. If you are contemplating suicide please seek professional help. Also, try talking to someone about your thoughts. It will make you feel much better. Feel free to call any of the hotlines mentioned below. If you prefer chat instead, we have also listed some chat websites. They all are professionals and will surely be able to help you.

 

International Hotline Numbers

 

 

Albania 127

Algeria 0021 3983 2000 58

Argentina + 54 (0) 223 493 0430, (54-11) 4758-2554, (054) (011) 4 783 8888

Armenia (2) 538194, (2) 538197

Australia 13 11 14, 08 98 422776, 03 63 31 3355, 1800 198 313, 08 93 81 5555

Austria 03 63 31 3355, 142

Bahamas 328-0922, 322-4999, 322-2763

Bahrain 0097 161 199 188, 0097 161 199 260, 0097 161 199 191, 0097 161 199 334

Bangladesh (Grameenphone): 01779554391, 01779554392, (Airtel): 01688709965, 01688709966, (Banglalink): 01985275286, (Robi): 01852035634

Barbados (246) 4299999

Belgium +32 (0) 2 648 40 14, 0800 32 123, 02/649 95 55 (gratis)

Bolivia 106, 0800 32 123, 102, 1813

Botswana 3911270

Brazil 55 11 31514109, +55 51 211 2888

Bulgaria 0035 9249 17 223, 981 76 86, 958 50 00

Canada +1 (905) 688 3711, 1-800-667-5005, 1-800-SUICIDE (784-2433)

Cayman Islands (345) 949-0290 | Cayman Brac (345) 948-2331/2332

Chile (00 56 42) 22 12 00

China 0800-810-1117, (21) 63798990

Colombia (00 57 5) 372 27 27, (57-1) 323 24 25

Costa Rica 506-253-5439

Croatia (01) 4833-888

Cuba 532 348 14 49

Cyprus +357 77 77 72 67, 0809 1122

Czech Republic +420 549241010, 004 202 460 80 718

Denmark +45 70 201 201

Dominica 333

Ecuador 593 2 6000 477, (593) 2 2923327

Egypt 762 1602/3, 762 2381

El Salvador 911 / 132 (Emergency)

Estonia +372 6558088, 126, 127

Ethiopia 911 (Emergency)

Fiji (0679) 670565, (0679) 302998

Finland 09-731391, 040-5032199

France 01 46 21 46 46, 01 45 39 40 00, (+33) (0)1 40 09 15 22, 0800 235 236

Gambia 117 / 116 (Emergency)

Germany 0800 181 0771, 030-44 01 06 07, 0800 1110 111

Ghana 2332 444 71279

Gibraltar 55666

Greece 1018, (0) 30 210 34 17 164

Grenada 911 (Emergency)

Guatemala 502-254-1259

Guinea 122 (Emergency)

Guinea-Bissau 112 (Emergency)

Guyana (+592) 223-0001, 223-0009, 600-7896, 623-4444

Haiti 114 / 116 (Emergency)

Holland 09000767

Honduras 504-237-3623

Hong Kong +852 28 960 000, +852 23820000

Hungary (46) 323 888, (62) 420 111

Iceland 1717

India +91 33 2474 4704, +91 22 2754 6669, +91 40 7904646, +91 79 2630 5544,

+91 (0) 44 2464 0050, +91-22-2307 3451

Indonesia 500-454

Iran 1480, 00989127181037

Iraq 112 / 911 (Emergency),

Ireland +44 (0) 8457 90 90 90, +44 (0) 8457 90 91 92, 1850 60 90 90, 1850 60 90 91

Israel 1201, 972-9-8891333, 972-76-8844400

Italy 800 86 00 22, 199 284 284

Jamaica 1-888-429-KARE (5273)

Japan +81 (0) 3 5286 9090, +81 (0) 6 4395 4343, 03 5774 0992

Jordan 0096 262 508 900, 0096 262 508 902, 0096 262 508 903

Kenya +254 20 3000378/2051323

Latvia 371 67222922, 371 27722292

Liberia 6534308

Lithuania 8-800 2 8888, Russian Speakers 8 800 77277

Luxembourg 454545

Malaysia (06) 284 2500, (04) 281 5161, (03) 7956 8144, (05) 547 7933, 06 7653588,

(063) 92850039

Malta 179

Martinique 112 (Emergency)

Mauritius 46 48 889, 800 93 93

Mexico 5255102550

Morocco 022 382 42 42, 212 (5) 22 87 47 40, 212 (6) 62 58 95 70

Namibia (09264) 61-232-221

Netherlands 0602 222 88, 0900-113 0 113

New Zealand (04) 586 1048, (06) 358 2442, (07) 348 0567, (07) 578 1002, (04) 473 9739

Nicaragua 505-268-6171

Norway +47 815 33 300, 815 33 300, 815 33 300, 815 33 300, +47 815 33 300

Pakistan 15 / 115 (Emergency)

Papua New Guinea 675 326 0011

Peru (00 51 1) 273 8026

Philippines (02) 8969191, 0917 854 9191

Poland 52 70 000, 52 70 988, 52 70 000

Portugal (+351) 225 50 60 70, (232) 42 42 82 , (808) 200 204, 22 832 35 35

Romania 0800 801 200

Russian Federation 007 (8202) 577-577, (7) 0942 224 621

St. Kitts & Nevis 911 (Emergency)

St. Lucia 452 -5433 / 458-2433

St. Vincent (784) 456 1044

Samoa (+381) 21-6623-393, (044) 08080, 037 23 025

Saudi Arabia 112 / 911 (Emergency)

Scotland 999, 0800 83 85 87

Serbia (+381) 21-6623-393, (044) 08080

Singapore 1800- 221 4444

Slovakia 0800 – 112 112

South Africa 0514445691, + 27 (0) 51 532 1100 , 0861 322 322, 051 444 5000

South Korea (2) 715 8600, (2) 716 8600, (02) 916-9191 , (064) 52 9191

Spain 902500002

Sri Lanka 011 057 2222662, 011 2692 909, 037 2291718

St. Kitts & Nevis 911 (Emergency)

St. Lucia 452 -5433 / 458-2433

St. Vincent (784) 456 1044

Sudan (249) 11-555-253

Sweden 020 22 00 60, (46) 31 711 2400

Switzerland 143, +41 (0) 27 321 21 21

Taiwan 1995, 0800 788 995

Thailand (02) 713-6793, (53) 225 977/8

Tobago (868) 645 2800

Tonga 23000, 25144

Trinidad and Tobago (868) 645 2800, (868) 645 2800 / 645 6616

Turkey 182

Ukraine 058, 0487 327715, 0482 226565

United Arab Emirates 800 46342

United Kingdom +44 (0) 8457 90 90 90, +44 (0) 8457 90 91 92, 1850 60 90 90, 1850 60 90 91

United States Of America 911, 1-800-273-TALK (8255)(Press 2 for Spanish), 1-800-SUICIDE, 702 743 4340, www.suicide.org for state-wise listing

Uruguay 0800-VIVE 8483

Venezuela 0241-8433308

Zimbabwe (9) 650 00, (4) 726 468 – (4) 722 000, 080 12 333 333, (20) 635 59

 

 

 

 

International Chat Support

 

http://www.suicidestop.com/suicide_prevention_chat_online.html

 

https://www.imalive.org/

 

[+ https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/GetHelp/LifelineChat.aspx+]

 

http://www.crisischat.org/

 

[+ https://www.lifeline.org.au/get-help/online-services/crisis-chat+]

 

The S Word

 

There is a word, a powerful word, that has affected thousands of lives. This word has infested people’s thoughts and emotions which have unfortunately caused them to take action. This word has also brought pain, suffering, and despair into once undisturbed families. Honestly, we don’t talk much about this word, but the total truth is that we have to. This word is suicide.

 

It’s a hard word to talk about, and this topic may strike a raw nerve, but this is important. Suicide is not something you can simply play around with; this is your life. You only get one life, and once you take it away, you don’t get it back. Your body is not like a light switch that you can turn on and off. Once you’ve turned off, you can’t turn back on. If it was as easy as a light switch we would have been designed with a red button to quit. But we don’t find that.

 

And to be honest, suicide sometimes seems to the easiest, simplest, and most painless way to get out of a situation but in reality, it’s not. There is no “painless” way to die, and every method of suicide can have complications. Suicide is not a “quick fix” to your life’s problems. It’s a serious issue, a permanent issue. And, life may seem stuck sometimes, and it may seem like you can’t go anywhere, that you are trapped. But, I want you to know that that is not the case. The world is continuously moving, and lives are always changing; nothing stands still. Patience is the key. Don’t expect things to change at the snap of the fingers but also realize that time never stops.

 

Why do people commit suicide? It’s not because they hate life. Everyone enjoys life sometimes; everyone has smiled, everyone has laughed. The reason people take their lives is because they think it is the only way to solve their problems. They don’t hate life they hate their problems: nothing more. And again this brings up the topic of patience. Not all problems last forever and even if they do, healing takes place. For example, if someone you love dies, no they can’t come back, but you can learn to cope with and accept their death. Emotional healing takes time.

 

You should look at the experiences of other people. Have you heard the stories of people that tried to take their lives but survived? They come back and tell others that they wished they could take back what they did. They immediately regretted their decision. Why is that? Again, they didn’t want to die; they wanted their PROBLEMS to be solved. Think about it. Suicidal people attempt suicide when they feel that their life is at it’s lowest. But remember this, if you are at your bottom the only other place you can go is up.

 

The next two paragraphs are spiritual in nature. You can skim over these, but you may also find some meaning too.

 

First, God tests the one’s he loves. God puts struggles in your life because he loves you and he’ll later reward you, if not in this life but the next life. Also, God won’t test you with what you can’t take. You are stronger than you think you are. If you think life is getting too hard, just remember that God knows you are strong enough to handle this. Even if you don’t believe that, you have to put your trust in God and keep fighting. You are strong and problems make you stronger.

 

Second, all religions frown upon suicide. It doesn’t matter what religion you identify with; every religion has some type of comment on suicide, and they all say, in one form or another, that suicide is wrong. Even an atheist would say suicide isn’t something that is acceptable. It’s against human nature and affects the world around you.

 

If you commit suicide, you create a type of void in the world. Look at your mother who bore pain while bringing you into the world. Think about how she would feel if her baby, whom she loves so much, was ripped from the world. Think about your father who watched you grow from a small helpless child into someone that can think for themselves. The father that spent his time teaching you morals and watched you go to your first day of school. Think about your siblings whom you fought with, laughed with, cried with. Think about you grandparents who were so happy to find out that you were coming into this world. Think about all of your happy childhood memories with these people. When you commit suicide, these people feel the pain. They feel the void, the emptiness of the world without you. These people have to live the rest of their lives thinking about, and feeling the pain of your absence.

 

Suicide hurts the ones around you and don’t ever say nobody cares about you. Look at those who raised you, look at your teacher, your friends, your parents, your siblings, your coworkers, your spouse, your children. Even if some of these people aren’t a part of your life, you always have someone. In life, you interact with people all the time and some of the people you interact with really do care about you whether you know it or not. Sometimes it feels as if you are all alone, but that is never the case. If all else, you have God. He loves you, and he cares about you. Even if you don’t believe in God you can always connect in a spiritual way to yourself. Be spiritual in your own way.

 

Not only do you create just direct voids you create indirect voids. Even with people related to you indirectly, you create a missing link in the flow of the world. You cut off the generations that come after you, you leave your future spouse alone, you prevent your future children from being born. Even if you’re someone older, you leave you grandkids without guidance; you leave your kids in shock. You have a role in this world and by killing yourself, your role disappears from the timeline. Everyone’s role in life is important, and if it’s ripped from the world, there can be adverse outcomes.

 

Also, you don’t know what kind of pain you leave behind you. You don’t see the effects you leave behind and trust me they aren’t good. Death itself is a grief which many people struggle to overcome, and the pain which suicide leaves behind is something which cannot be explained because the survivors go through this mental trauma thinking they were responsible or they couldn’t help etc.

 

Even if you think you are unwanted just remember that you are unique. No one can replace you in this world and no one ever will. There can be others in your workplace, there can be others in your school, other siblings for your siblings and other kids for your parents, but know that you are unique! You will be missed, by every single one of them. Even if people were mean to you it was nothing permanent. People hate others and later love them. That’s how life is, and that’s the beauty of it.

 

In the end, look at the world. The world is greater than it seems and your problems aren’t the only things in the world. This isn’t saying that your problems aren’t important, it’s saying don’t get stuck in your problems. Look at the broader picture and enjoy the larger things that the world has to offer. Have you had all the spiritual moments in your life? Some of the world’s greatest joys. They can be simple things to one of the most complicated. Have you seen all the places in this huge planet? Have you done all the cool and silly things in this world? If not, take a break and try to experience life outside your problems.

 

Finally, don’t be impulsive. If you feel like taking your life, DON’T BE IMPULSIVE. It’s almost like you wouldn’t impulsively buy a car because the purchase of a car is a big decision. Your life is something a lot greater than buying a car so why would you impulsively take your life away? If you feel like taking your life and give a gap, I can almost guarantee you will see good things coming and your problems will soon fade away.

 

But if you have thought of suicide once, it’s OK. Let that be a stronger motivation to live fearlessly. Because most people fail in life coz they fear, and they fear death too along with other fears. If your life was so bad that you have contemplated suicide, let it be a source of motivation for you because now you don’t fear death, now you are going to smile at the silly problems that face you coz you have seen worse. And if you see worse in the future, know that you didn’t come this far to quit, you will solve this or this will pass just like all the other seemingly big problems passed you. Stay strong!

 

 

 

 

 

Thank You :)

 

 

 

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Hotlines Sources

 

 

www.suicide.org

 

Wikipedia

 

http://im-just-lucy.tumblr.com/suicidehotlines

 

http://www.suicidestop.com/call_a_hotline.html

 

http://togetherweare-strong.tumblr.com/helpline

 

http://www.iasp.info/

 

http://ibpf.org/

 

http://www.suicide-prevention.org.uk/


cope up Kip Up KEEP IT UP : The S Word

The S Word is a small chapter of our book, 'cope up Kip Up KEEP IT UP' aimed to help people who are depressed and suicidal. We believe nobody wants to kill themselves, all they want is to kill the pain they are going through, and all they need is help. In this book, 'The S Word' we also have a list of International hotlines and professional chat services for support.

  • Author: P M Asloob Sabir & Nurah LaRae Hanson
  • Published: 2016-09-29 19:35:09
  • Words: 2544
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